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[pete777]

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Not to prey on a bad situation, I would NEVER do that, but how much is that modding service again? Wouldn't happen to have an extra Pro laying around you wanted to sell, huh?

This too shall pass. Counseling may help, but I just found out my son is supposedly expecting another child with this "woman" he is with. I want a DNA testing center on standby for this one.

Can you make an app that would do that? Like the infrared could like read the blood and all of that?

Not wanting to make light of anything, but dwelling won't get you anywhere.

Stay strong. Laughter is sometimes the best medicine.

[D/\SH]

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Not to prey on a bad situation, I would NEVER do that, but how much is that modding service again? Wouldn't happen to have an extra Pro laying around you wanted to sell, huh?

This too shall pass. Counseling may help, but I just found out my son is supposedly expecting another child with this "woman" he is with. I want a DNA testing center on standby for this one.

Can you make an app that would do that? Like the infrared could like read the blood and all of that?

Not wanting to make light of anything, but dwelling won't get you anywhere.

Stay strong. Laughter is sometimes the best medicine.

the modding service is 60 shipped back with insurance and no i dont have a pro unfortunately.... thinking about selling mine and going back to a flip phone for a lil and than a touch that i will be trading for soon....

[GokuSS3]

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Man I know all to well what you are going threw right now. I just went threw all of that not that long ago and was depressed over a girl and why I couldnt seem to do things right!!!! I was beating myself up over it , saying the same things I am a good guy nice why can't keep who I am with , am I doing something wrong. Well it not that you are doing something wrong just haven't found that person yet. When you do you won't have to try it will just all come natural for you bro........ Don't stress over her too bad or life it is not worth it just push on and do you be you don't change. An plus she didn't tell up front about it then she couldn't have been all that serious!!!!! But keep your head up and stay busy cause sitting around thinking about it just makes it so much worse for you bro. Hope things get better for you/

[D/\SH]

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Not to prey on a bad situation, I would NEVER do that, but how much is that modding service again? Wouldn't happen to have an extra Pro laying around you wanted to sell, huh?

This too shall pass. Counseling may help, but I just found out my son is supposedly expecting another child with this "woman" he is with. I want a DNA testing center on standby for this one.

Can you make an app that would do that? Like the infrared could like read the blood and all of that?

Not wanting to make light of anything, but dwelling won't get you anywhere.

Stay strong. Laughter is sometimes the best medicine.

Man I know all to well what you are going threw right now. I just went threw all of that not that long ago and was depressed over a girl and why I couldnt seem to do things right!!!! I was beating myself up over it , saying the same things I am a good guy nice why can't keep who I am with , am I doing something wrong. Well it not that you are doing something wrong just haven't found that person yet. When you do you won't have to try it will just all come natural for you bro........ Don't stress over her too bad or life it is not worth it just push on and do you be you don't change. An plus she didn't tell up front about it then she couldn't have been all that serious!!!!! But keep your head up and stay busy cause sitting around thinking about it just makes it so much worse for you bro. Hope things get better for you/

word i hear you there it just came crashing down at such a bad time.... i know it will happen when it will happen since the big man above already has it all planned.... just kind of tough as you say and hard to stop thinking about sometimes especially when i have to see her at least 4 times a week at work since she shares an office with me :(

[GokuSS3]

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word i hear you there it just came crashing down at such a bad time.... i know it will happen when it will happen since the big man above already has it all planned.... just kind of tough as you say and hard to stop thinking about sometimes especially when i have to see her at least 4 times a week at work since she shares an office with me :(

I know I worked with my last Girlfriend that I was with for a year an a half , after things ended I had to go everyday to work seeing her and not let it effect me at work cause she was a manager I was associate. If word where of gotten out she could have introuble. So i know it must suck bad. But as I said keep strong even tho it will hard that you have to work with her all the time.

[D/\SH]

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I know I worked with my last Girlfriend that I was with for a year an a half , after things ended I had to go everyday to work seeing her and not let it effect me at work cause she was a manager I was associate. If word where of gotten out she could have introuble. So i know it must suck bad. But as I said keep strong even tho it will hard that you have to work with her all the time.

yeah the worst part about it is that i have to be in contact with her constantly because i am her boss and she is my assistant that mails out all my packages and takes the calls for me....... kind of hard to avoid her but i guess we will see if we can still be friends or work this out or something....... gonna be interesting these next weeks to see what happend between us since i dont want to loose her from my life totally.... like i said earlier im gonna have to scruff up some cash so i can go see a counseler.... just need to find some things that i can part with and sell so i can get the cash to do so.

[GokuSS3]

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yeah the worst part about it is that i have to be in contact with her constantly because i am her boss and she is my assistant that mails out all my packages and takes the calls for me....... kind of hard to avoid her but i guess we will see if we can still be friends or work this out or something....... gonna be interesting these next weeks to see what happend between us since i dont want to loose her from my life totally.... like i said earlier im gonna have to scruff up some cash so i can go see a counseler.... just need to find some things that i can part with and sell so i can get the cash to do so.

Do that too if you think that is what you need , don't let anyone tell you other wise or make it seem like it not cool!!!! I went it helped me a ton got me out of being all sad and back to being me and doing what I love too do. Just know if you do go they are only there to listen to you , they wont give you answers just make you see the big picture and suggest what you could do to help you !!!!

[D/\SH]

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Do that too if you think that is what you need , don't let anyone tell you other wise or make it seem like it not cool!!!! I went it helped me a ton got me out of being all sad and back to being me and doing what I love too do. Just know if you do go they are only there to listen to you , they wont give you answers just make you see the big picture and suggest what you could do to help you !!!!

word, yeah i have heard how they work but sometimes someone there to help you gather your talks and to listen to you can help out soooo much

[francesco76ge]

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well basically as you all know i have been chilling quite a bit with priscilla and was loving every minute of it. but today i found out after of course i started falling for her that she has a boyfriend she conveniently forgot to tell me about. after all i have just gone through this is a big hit and i dont know what to do or what i am doing wrong. i consider myself the perfect gentleman that will always treat a woman with respect whether it is opening doors, listening to what they have to say, being respectful, in arguments listening to what she has to say than tell her my perspective respectfully, call her just to say hi and to see how their day is going, remembering special oocassions, being part of their intresets and doing those intrests with them, etc.... i just seem to never have luck with the ladies yet and just dont seem to know why. me and pris have always understood eachother and could tell eachother anything even stuff we havent shared with anyone else and than this happened and i dont know what to think and just cant catch a break lately. i feel again as my life is crashing again and there is nothing i can do to stop it.... all day since i have found out i have been in a deep depression and just sitting there thinking about why does this always happen and my friends that are female cant figure it out because they always say i am the guy of all girls dreams and being hot doesnt hurt either..... does anyone have any insight or different look on this because i still cant stop thinking of her and all and it seems as if i will never find the one....... as many know i had a fiance for a while before i walked in on her cheating on me and ****ing one of my best friends at the time. i would really appreciate to here some thoughts on the situation and how to cheer myself up...

Thanks family for always being there for me.

Well just look at it as experiance. Your young and theirs a lot of women out there, and remember the old saying " why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free", I know it sounds cold but theres so many women and so little time. Use what god gave ya and play the game, and have fun with it.

[CYBER WEESJE]

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He dash sorry to here this bro she forgot about that? Damm uhm strange i also had my share of life on this area also relation i am very caring one give love romance respect i am trust wordy en never cheat my girls and participates in everything for a woman too much mostly i am to good for women that dont deserve me my last girl it whas like 1 year and 6 months and decided to buy a house after buy that sale was closed i came to notice one email that she forget to delete some flirty text from guy and it started i am bad boy whit pc so since she change passwords msn windows i hackt it and instaled a keylogger after only one day i had prove print it out on paper and to be honnest to look on here face whas gold i had here busted she whas cheathing me with someone at her work i stopt the relation ship and i am stuk whit hour house its op for sale and i hate here big time its hard to hear all this and love hurts sometime realy bad bud i had to move on to so thanks to my friends and i got over it well dash enough about me dash you deserve a good woman and that day will come keep your head up bro your soulmate is out there some where life will bring you together whe your friends are all still here buddy

ps i hope you understand some of this

grtz weesje
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[tektoys]

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whoa! and here we thought she was the one... well... shit happens man thats the bottom line, like many have said before you're young and THE one is still out there waiting for you. relationships are like a cow, no matter what you always get meat, the key is getting the right cut but to get to it you gotta go through all the fat and crap to get to the good part... and to the ladies , don't get me wrong i'm not comparing you to meat or cows by any stretch of the imagination so please put away the torches and pitchforks... but i digress... this has happened to all of us to some digree or extent, hell i got married a little over a year ago and i'm 35, i've gone through my fair share of "cows" and i finally got to my filet mignon, i do admit i occasionally look at ground beef and wouldn't mind making meatballs but then i remember i've got some good meat at home... dammit now i'm hungry!! anyway, keep moving and dont forget that we're your support system (something those therapists will recommend) and although going out to clubs and bars alone may seem creepy and weird from time to time it's not bad to scope the beef LOL! ok enough cattle analogies!

[D/\SH]

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Well just look at it as experiance. Your young and theirs a lot of women out there, and remember the old saying " why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free", I know it sounds cold but theres so many women and so little time. Use what god gave ya and play the game, and have fun with it.

word, thanks for the anaolgy actually got me smiling for the first time since.... does put it in a different thought pattern in my mind also.

He dash sorry to here this bro she forgot about that? Damm uhm strange i also had my share of life on this area also relation i am very caring one give love romance respect i am trust wordy en never cheat my girls and participates in everything for a woman too much mostly i am to good for women that dont deserve me my last girl it whas like 1 year and 6 months and decided to buy a house after buy that sale was closed i came to notice one email that she forget to delete some flirty text from guy and it started i am bad boy whit pc so since she change passwords msn windows i hackt it and instaled a keylogger after only one day i had prove print it out on paper and to be honnest to look on here face whas gold i had here busted she whas cheathing me with someone at her work i stopt the relation ship and i am stuk whit hour house its op for sale and i hate here big time its hard to hear all this and love hurts sometime realy bad bud i had to move on to so thanks to my friends and i got over it well dash enough about me dash you deserve a good woman and that day will come keep your head up bro your soulmate is out there some where life will bring you together whe your friends are all still here buddy

ps i hope you understand some of this

grtz weesje
moderator@spj

wow thats tough and thanks for sharing that with me, understood it all and very impressed by how good that you english has got in this short period of time. thanks for relating to me in that aspect

whoa! and here we thought she was the one... well... shit happens man thats the bottom line, like many have said before you're young and THE one is still out there waiting for you. relationships are like a cow, no matter what you always get meat, the key is getting the right cut but to get to it you gotta go through all the fat and crap to get to the good part... and to the ladies , don't get me wrong i'm not comparing you to meat or cows by any stretch of the imagination so please put away the torches and pitchforks... but i digress... this has happened to all of us to some digree or extent, hell i got married a little over a year ago and i'm 35, i've gone through my fair share of "cows" and i finally got to my filet mignon, i do admit i occasionally look at ground beef and wouldn't mind making meatballs but then i remember i've got some good meat at home... dammit now i'm hungry!! anyway, keep moving and dont forget that we're your support system (something those therapists will recommend) and although going out to clubs and bars alone may seem creepy and weird from time to time it's not bad to scope the beef LOL! ok enough cattle analogies!

another cow analogy huh, just messing... but thanks and that does help clear some things up when you here it in different terms and realize that many have been through similar occurences and twists in relationships and life. means a lot to have soooo many people showing care.

[francesco76ge]

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Or you know what might be happening, your pimpn so hard all the ladies are looking at you and loosing there minds and thinkn " WOW , gota get some of that man gina". LOL just a thought, but it could be whats happening.

[MikeyD]

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DAMN women can screw with your life so bad. You cant live with em and you cant kill em without gettig caught (damn csi)....J/K. Counseling is good, i went through when i found out my wife cheated on me. I decided to stay with her after i found out but for the longest time i couldnt look at her without thinking she was sleeping with every guy she talked too. I went to counseling and a local support group for a few weeks. They helped alot cuz i could vent to people other than my family (which would have crusified my wife). That was 4 years ago and know i bring up jokingly or not at all. Now we have the beautiful daughters which are my world (yes they are all mine, i checked). What im getting at is that was a low point in my life, cuz no matter what she did to me i still love the heck out of her and thats what hurt the most is that i could not let that go. I took my rifle with me to the mountains and thought real hard about pulling that trigger, thank god i was drunk and past out. when i woke up all i could think of was my girls and i didnt want to put them throught that. So counseling works and real friends help too. Find a support group that might help you too. check for state counseling that is was i did, i only paid like 15 dollars a session. I hope it all works out for man, keep your head up and remember it could always be worse you could have a sharp stick in your eye....lol

[tlpalmer01]

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Dash
You are an awesome person from what I have seen in your postings and text messages..even in your crisis you had asked about me...Any woman would be very lucky to have you and someone who does that to you doesnt deserve you..not too mention you are hot...if only i were a little younger and not going thru a divorce (husband walked out after my dad died).. but seriously you have alot to offer and someday you will find the girl you are meant to be with and will treat and love you the way you should be. I still believe I will get married again to a man who treats and supports me thru good and bad times...

You have alot on your plate now and believe me when I tell you things will be better I mean it. My husband was everything to me and I loved him so much and it hurt when he said he didnt love me...It has been almost 2 years since we seperated and I know that our breakup was meant to happen.. and again you know you can call, text to talk whenever I will always listen...

PS..me and littledaisy can have a word with her if you would like..haha..