i need to vent about gf sorry

[tlpalmer01]

Re: i need to vent about gf sorry

gadget is 100% correct, i was reading everything and then I thought that maybe she was doing things to get attention or to make u jealous...hang in there though as I tell every one with problems "things will get better"..trust me I am proof.......

[Sidmetalquanta]

Re: i need to vent about gf sorry

so we ended up taking a break...

the reason behind this was because..

last day she was gonna be able to see me before she left to colorado and she just ended spending the whole day sleeping cause she was partying the day before so i felt like i was supposed be ok with it and blame it on the a a a alcahol but really it bothered me a lot... and i got pissed and argued with her and she threw it in my face again... so i broke it off...

went to go see her uncle today (we hella cool) he ended up tell me because of all the reasoning i had i was right and maybe because she was in party mode and i'm in serious mode we should take a break... so i agreed...

gonna try reverse psychology and let her enjoy herself till she poops out.. then come back that if it's too late to the point where feeling are lost.. but hopefully soon....

which means i have no means to why i shouldn't go out and feel guilty about... but more than likely i'm still not gonna go out... not feeling to posotive with my decision but hopefully works.. if she loves me that much that is...

i'm gonna see wats on the market but nothing to serios.. no sex.. see how long i can go... ;(...

to those who have been reading this post thank you for your time... and your feedback.. i'll let you guys know wats up as soon as a couple weeks pass... see if that's enough time... she gonna party every night i already know.. so if longer.. then i'll wait 3 months if nothing i'm hitting the super market.... sad but true...

[D/\SH]

Re: i need to vent about gf sorry

so we ended up taking a break...

the reason behind this was because..

last day she was gonna be able to see me before she left to colorado and she just ended spending the whole day sleeping cause she was partying the day before so i felt like i was supposed be ok with it and blame it on the a a a alcahol but really it bothered me a lot... and i got pissed and argued with her and she threw it in my face again... so i broke it off...

went to go see her uncle today (we hella cool) he ended up tell me because of all the reasoning i had i was right and maybe because she was in party mode and i'm in serious mode we should take a break... so i agreed...

gonna try reverse psychology and let her enjoy herself till she poops out.. then come back that if it's too late to the point where feeling are lost.. but hopefully soon....

which means i have no means to why i shouldn't go out and feel guilty about... but more than likely i'm still not gonna go out... not feeling to posotive with my decision but hopefully works.. if she loves me that much that is...

i'm gonna see wats on the market but nothing to serios.. no sex.. see how long i can go... ;(...

to those who have been reading this post thank you for your time... and your feedback.. i'll let you guys know wats up as soon as a couple weeks pass... see if that's enough time... she gonna party every night i already know.. so if longer.. then i'll wait 3 months if nothing i'm hitting the super market.... sad but true...

damn all happens for a reason and since i can def tell that you do love her and care for her i hope if it is meant to be that you two end up together.... best of luck

[pete777]

Re: i need to vent about gf sorry

You know, instead of going out and seeing what's on the market, how about taking some time to yourself?

Sounds crazy, I know, but there isn't anything wrong with it. You've got some stuff to figure out on your own, and it wouldn't be fair to anyone you did find, because what if your girl did decide to come back? More guilt, more drama and all of that stuff that you don't need or want.

You sound like you're just confused about what to do. You're young, you're entitled to feel that way, since you don't have much mileage to base your outlook on.

In a perfect world, you'd take the three months, that you say that you are going to wait for your girl; and work on getting your license and a job and some school = work on you, making yourself into the man that you can be.

Best of luck to you sweetie!

[npatel001]

Re: i need to vent about gf sorry

so i moved out of frisco cause my family was having financial problems... i thought it would be smart to move out of girls house to get away from wasting money on her and having to do it big... so then 8 months pass...

she lives in an appartment with 6 roommates... including her...

she gets this guy who is taller than me... 66 to be exact and white blue eyed... and well i don't find him to be handsome or watever but ever since he's been at the house it seems like my girl doesn't have time to call or like even let me know that she's ok....

she says i'm overprotective and that i put her in a shell... because i tell her to let me know where she leaving to and when she get there to let me know she ok... i don't see it as overprotective... am i?.. i've been hurting to think that maybe i might be... so this guy is somewat like me... attitude wise and well i see him not as a threat but a potential threat... he parties with my girl and all the roomies and stay up past 2am and they are just in the house... he's gonna be there for two months to live but i feel like 2 months of seeing a guy day in and day out... i think can cause somewat of an attraction... may i add... i don't drive cause of DUI... recommend not getting one... and so it's hard... to think...

i've been beating myself up... and just don't know if i'm just gelouse... or just trippin... been with her for 3 yrs coming up... so wat should i do ignore it or wat... but i'm seriously getting mad and gelouse... she the type of drunk to just be up and wild... but very smart about how to react but not so much when she drunk... wat do you guys think... i need advice..

THANKS SPJ... i know i was all over the place with this post but i'm just going crazy!!!!!!

Hey man, call me a soft c**k but I have always believed that if your girl is supposed to be yours she will. If she plays up then she isn;t yours and isn't worth your time or effort. Its hard to do but if your are confident in yourself then if she ends up by not treating you right then you will know that there is always another girl out there for you. Just relax, give her some time and space, no girl likes a needy pushy guy, and if she is yours she will come to you.

Doesn't make those sleepless nights any better though :) Chin up bro!

[only1penny]

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bro get a grip! shaunym is right. you laid yourself down and she sees what you got. she's either gonna pick it up or leave it. no need trying to convince her. besides after 3 yrs she knows what you got. i wouldn't have any contact with her if i was you. it'll be hard, but none what so ever. don't call, don't text, don't stop by, nothing like that. she'll either miss u or she's not worth your time and you can drop kick her......but i'm guessing after 3 yrs she'll call you before you know it. BUT DON'T YOU CONTACT HER!

[D/\SH]

Re: i need to vent about gf sorry

bro get a grip! shaunym is right. you laid yourself down and she sees what you got. she's either gonna pick it up or leave it. no need trying to convince her. besides after 3 yrs she knows what you got. i wouldn't have any contact with her if i was you. it'll be hard, but none what so ever. don't call, don't text, don't stop by, nothing like that. she'll either miss u or she's not worth your time and you can drop kick her......but i'm guessing after 3 yrs she'll call you before you know it. BUT DON'T YOU CONTACT HER!

word i have to agree with that since she said she needs the space and your smothering....... but if she doesnt call sooner or later she may be doing the same and either way even if not together is it worth giving up knowing and seeing that peroson you loved and cared for so much just like that? when im dating someone and we break up i still try to be friends with them, why? this one very thing, if i loved the person enough to be with them like that than how could i handle loosing them forever?